Quote from the 2014 Friend at Court:
Q. What is a tennis official?
A. A person who helps ensure that any given tennis match is conducted under the fairest possible conditions. So, ideally, the official is a "friend at court," helpful to the players and the spectators.
Quite an interesting quote and perhaps one that should be given to some of our USTA referees around the country. Now that the summer season is in full swing, we hear constant reports of bad (and good) referees all over everywhere. Not that all reports are bad or untrue, but the sad fact exists that we have some referees who have trouble distinguishing between being a "friend at court" and being an inflexible referee who wreaks havoc of players and spectators alike.
Consider the following examples from around Texas:
* A well known lady referee in Texas has the nickname "feminazi" among players and spectators for her aggressive and dominant officiating style.
* A referee chased a dad into the parking lot to chastise him for disobeying rules. When asked about his behavior, the referee said, "I had to show him who was boss."
* In a ZAT tournament the parents of both players were sitting next to the sideline fence watching the match. Noone was coaching or causing any problems but the referee strutted up and said, "You have to move. There is a three foot rule regarding parents sitting next to a fence."
* In a women's doubles match both teams were putting their equipment and supplies down in a shaded patio that adjoined their court and had open and free access from the court. Both teams agreed to do so and were having a great match. The referee quickly came to court and said they could not use the shaded area and made all four of them sit out on the court in the sun with no shade available. He told the players that there was a rule forbidding what they were doing.
These are just a few of the accounts that come from tournaments every week--and its time for some of our referee to reign in their behavior. It is beyond this writer to understand why a tournament director would hire a referee that shows such utter disregard for players and spectators alike. The saddest thing to witness is a referee who is constantly abusive and rude to everyone in the tournament. Some simply seem to labor under the need to assert their authority and penalize anyone who questions them.
What is the solution? More training? If that were so, some of the greatest offenders should have been cured years ago. More pay? Money won't change a thing. Having lunch provided? Not hardly. Most of these referees already have their lunch provided by the tournament director.
Basically the best solution would be for the tournaments not to hire them... We (and the tournament directors) know who the worst referees are and its time to change it--for the betterment of the game and the players and spectators.
Here are some helpful hints for a referee with a dictator complex:
* Remember you are there to facilitate fair play and help the players and spectators have an enjoyable experience.
* You aren't king (or queen) of anything so don't act that way.
* Remember that you aren't always right.
* The people you deal with are fellow humans and deserve to be treated with respect and dignity.
* Don't run around just looking for something or someone to code for something real or imagined.
* Don't make up rules to suit your own agenda. Lots of people have a Friend at Court and can check your accuracy and integrity.
* Just be nice.